World Weary Wednesday:  Where do we go from here?  November 09, 2016  Gratiana Lovelace (Post #997)

I went to bed shocked last evening—actually,  in the early morning hours of today.  After the initial vote count, the United States probably has a President-Elect (below), whose words and actions  throughout his campaign were—in my and in many people’s view–divisive, hate filled, racist, misogynist, class baiting, degrading, and offensive, undignified, etc.


I cannot understand how that message caused roughly 47.9% of Americans to vote for it and for him—giving him a .6% margin of victory.  Somehow, for his supporters, what he was promising must have seemed better than the alternative, her, Hillary.  And though one political pundit on the PBS News Hour claimed that he did not so much win as that she lost—in not gaining the support and votes of more minorities and the less educated and low income and more women—I won’t do the blame thing of her here.


To me, Hillary’s message at the Democratic convention reached out to the disenfranchised—promising to build them up.   And unfortunately, the efforts of her opponent to demonize Hillary were astoundingly latched onto with a vengeance.  So voters whom Hillary hoped to throw a lifeline to, rejected that lifeline and her.


However, I embraced Hillary’s message of hope.   “I was with her, because she was for us”—was one tweet I saw said.  That was true for me as well.  Hillary would have been a great president—and not because it would have been an historic moment for the female gender—168 years after Seneca Falls Convention in 1848, or 240 years after Abigail Adams admonished her husband  “to remember the ladies”  in 1776 as they began to write the new U.S. Constitution that was ratified in 1789–but because Hillary’s values are to build up and to improve and to work together with stakeholders to make everyone’s lives better.  She has the experience of doing just—working for the betterment of society–through her decades of public service and in elected and appointed positions.


And now that dream of her leadership as President for the next term begins to fade.  Though there might yet be vote recounts called for, as we saw in 2000 with Al Gore’s candidacy against George Bush.  Though the hanging chads have probably been fixed—people using paper ballots color in the ovals these days.  So unless there is a box of 1.2 million votes uncounted in a dumpsters somewhere–like the Oscars awards one year–Hillary isn’t going to win the Presidency this go around.


So what now?  My husband and others have joked that if this new reality we are now seemingly faced with ever came to pass, we would move to Canada.  My hubby and I spent a night in Toronto on our honeymoon, maybe we could say it’s a 28th anniversary trip?  Ha!

What are some of your gut reactions in response to the U.S. Presidential Elections result?

Yeah, me too.   But then, I jolt myself out of that defeatist self talk.  I have to.  I am not a person who gives in to wallowing about the difficulties in life.  That is not because my life is without sorrows, hardships, and adversity—some of them are/were very great and oppressive.  But to let them overtake me is not my style.


My best defense has always been my steely resolve to meet each challenge head on—gaining internal strength as I hold my head up high.  I am no push over, nor a wallflower.  And woe betide anyone who makes that mistake. If someone is a bully, or a thug in a suit—to me or to anyone else—I do not let them get away with it.  Period.


And yes, I usually try to think the best of people, to give them the benefit of the doubt, to lead with compassion rather than with anger.  That approach is not a weakness.  It is a strength.  I try “to be the change that I wish to see in the world” (quote from Ghandi, maybe, maybe not).  Afterall, I am the Something About Love lady.

When I think about it,  nearly half of voters (47.3%) in the U.S. Presidential Election wanted and did vote for the losing candidate, Hillary Clinton– who to me represented  the values of decency, experience, leadership, social justice, peace, equity, inclusiveness, humanity, etc.  And that is very reaffirming to me.


So I resolve to viewing my glass as being half full, not half empty.  Yes, there is much work to be done in the U.S. and the world to work toward eliminating disparities of living circumstances—with safety, nutrition/health, education, and jobs being chief among them.

And I believe that now more than ever, we need an engaged and committed citizenry to put aside our differences and to seek out the commonalities between us–in the hope of bridging the gaps, and tearing down walls–to create a greater understanding, respect, dignity, and valuing of each other.


So I will continue to do my bit in volunteering, donating, and working with our local community organizations (NGO’s—such as the YWCA, Boys & Girls Clubs, etc.–to support children and families, to assist marginalized and at risk individuals to better their situations, and to mentor and befriend individuals who just need a little help and compassion in their lives.


I hope that you also remember that your contributions of time, talent, and/or treasure in your community will also make a difference—because when our individual efforts are coupled with the efforts of others, they become an overwhelming force for good.


Hugs & Love! Grati

About Gratiana Lovelace

Gratiana Lovelace is my nom de plume for my creative writing and blogging. I write romantic stories in different sub genres. The stories just tumble out of me. My resurgence in creative writing occurred when I viewed the BBC miniseries of Elizabeth Gaskell's novel North & South in February 2010. The exquisitely talented British actor portraying the male lead John Thornton in North & South--Richard Crispin Armitage--became my unofficial muse. I have written over 50 script stories about love--some are fan fiction, but most are original stories--that I am just beginning to share with others on private writer sites, and here on my blog. And as you know, my blog here is also relatively new--since August 2011. But, I'm having fun and I hope you enjoy reading my blog essays and my stories. Cheers! Grati ;-> upd 12/18/11
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9 Responses to World Weary Wednesday:  Where do we go from here?  November 09, 2016  Gratiana Lovelace (Post #997)

    • Hi Eagle-Eyed Editor, Thanks for your kind note! We’ll get through a Trump presidency.
      And I have faith in our constitution–and its checks and balances–to reign in any ill considered impulses that he might have. Cheers! Grati ;->


  1. November 09 & 12, 2016–Thanks for liking/starring this post! I’m glad that you enjoyed it! Cheers! Grati

    Eagle-Eyed Editor, discovermarche, & Leila Rage


  2. Esther says:

    I can not wrap my head around this awful result…. This election doesn’t only affect Americans but the whole world and as part of that world I am afraid now… Hillary won the popular vote but not the presidency… I can not fathom that either… I hope tomorrow I will feel a little better…

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    • Hi Esther,

      I’m with you. The outcome of the U.S. Presidential Election is not what many of us had hoped for. And I still shake my head.

      I can only hope that we all continue to strive to improve our society, to build a community of unique individuals with shared “inalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness”. (,_Liberty_and_the_pursuit_of_Happiness)

      These words from the U.S. Declaration of Independence seem so simple, yet they convey so much. As individuals in a society we need to care as much about the rights of others as we care about our own rights–locally and globally..

      And we create community and society–both here and abroad–through “people in general thought of as living together in organized communities with shared laws, traditions, and values”(definition by Merriam Webster online:

      It won’t be easy, and the future may seem uncertain, but if we continue to live our values through supporting community organizations that work for the betterment of society, then that is one way to work for a better tomorrow.

      Hugs & Love! Grati ;->

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  3. November 09, 2016–Well said, President Obama!


  4. November 10, 2016–Loved this James Corden Late Late Show monologue from last night:


  5. November 10, 2016–In the November 9th White House Press Briefing, the White House Press Secretary spends time adroitly answering Presidential Election questions:


  6. November 11, 2016– I shared this earlier on Facebook today:

    Each person copes/processes this election outcome in their own way. And yes, the concerning nature of the President-Elect’s verbal attacks and threats on individuals who “don’t look like him”, is frightening. How is the President-Elect inciting people to violence “not” him breaking a law?

    I was at a university talk this afternoon where a retired political science professor talked about the election and what and why the outcome happened the way that it did. Being in a room with like minded people helps, and it was very reaffirming.

    For me, it’s important to talk with others who share my concerns and reflect ways that can move forward to continue to advocate in our community–for our core values of personal dignity and respect for all persons, providing aid to those in need, working with children for their education to widen their possibilities, etc.

    And I feel that we need to especially kind and caring and supportive and really listen to individuals who feel that their lives are literally being attacked and threatened. Their concerns are valid.

    Hugs & Love! Grati ;->


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